Love without illusions

We all want to love and be loved. The only problem is that there are too many obstacles, misconceptions, and patriarchal stereotypes on the way to a happy love. Especially if we were born girls, this book is dedicated to illusions that prevent the building of cordial and fruitful relationships. The author analyzes her experience and tries to figure out whether any of the accumulated knowledge and wisdom (and also unwisdom) about women, men, and their relationships can be systematized, organized, and practically used to create the "unicorn" of our time - healthy relationships.

​A long, serious, sarcastic, frank, and painful conversation with myself turned into a book that would not give all the answers. Still, it will help you ask the right questions and confirm that you always intuitively understood social and cultural pressure, the myth of romantic love, healthy and unhealthy relationships, anxiety markers in the first stages of dating, the ability to leave in time, being yourself and trying to change the other.